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I created my profile and uploaded pictures of myself.
Nothing too crazy or screamed, "I'm on here to have reckless sex and get flown to party in Miami Beach every weekend!
At the time, I had joint custody and only saw them two weeks out of the month.
I knew they weren't ever going to meet him, so I didn't feel the need to tell him right off the bat.
Not when I was 21, and certainly not as a 51-year-old divorced parent of three.
Perhaps it was my Roman Catholic background that shaped my views on relationships and love, but I used to think the sugar-daddy-sugar baby dynamic was silly and taboo.
I existed to make dinner for the kids and provide an open ear when he needed to vent.
After 15 years — six of which involved intensive marriage counseling — I finally decided to walk away.
Now here was something different; something I never, ever thought I would discover. But a part of me was very curious — too curious to ignore.I wanted to take control of my life and smile again. As striking as this blonde-hair, blue-eyed guy was, he just wasn't stable enough for me. But OKCupid, e Harmony — none of them felt quite right for me.A few weeks after signing the divorce papers, I jumped right back into the dating game with a 29-year-old I had met at a work function. By then, I was 50 with three kids and unwavering aspirations of getting my MBA. I went on a few dates here and there, but mostly they were just … It wasn't just because the men didn't look like their profile pictures.On that second date, John and I decided to give the sugar daddy-sugar baby thing a go.(Or, "cougar baby," I guess it's called, since I'm older than him.) I told him what my car payment, rent and living expenses were, and he agreed to give me ,500 a month in cash. We were on the same page from the start, which made things easy.
After accepting, I was relieved when he pulled up sporting more casual clothes this time.